I haven't had much time to post anything. It seems my idea to work hard on finding some balance between being a mother and a spouse and being a real life human with a life must have struck a chord with my husband. I say that because just as my quest was starting, it was put on hold. Ben decided that he wanted to go back to what makes him happiest. So he decided, for us, to begin interveiwing and testing to go back into police road work. If you have never been through this fun fun fun experience, let me tell you it is kind of all consuming. Not just for the one applying. He may be the one testing, but Severus has lost most of his time with his dad, and I don't feel like I have a husband. He is more like a roommate that expects me to make him meals, wash his clothes, and clean his things while he was here sleeping.
On top of this, Ben had decided that this would be the year we have an actual ceremony and reception and renew our vows. But since he is sooo busy with all these PD's, he has no time to plan anything,. So that has fallen to me as well. Because, it isn't like I have anything better to do. I am not at all busy. Nope.
So, this will have to be continued later. I am guessing when I am 80.
